What is cooperative play?

Written by Yuppo Lab Experts.

Updated 27 October 2026

Cooperative play is when children play together towards a shared goal, agreeing on roles, rules or a plan, such as building a tower together or playing shop. It usually develops in the preschool years, after parallel play.

Key takeaways

  • It is the most social stage of play described by sociologist Mildred Parten in 1932.
  • It builds sharing, negotiation and empathy.
  • Toddlers are not yet expected to play this way.

What you can do

  • Offer games with simple turns and shared goals.
  • Help with words for sharing and negotiating: "Can I have a turn?"
  • Let small disagreements play out before stepping in.

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