What is parallel play?

Written by Yuppo Lab Experts.

Updated 27 October 2026

Parallel play is when young children play side by side, often with similar toys, without directly playing together. It is a normal stage, most noticeable around 2 to 3 years, in which toddlers learn by watching and copying each other.

Key takeaways

  • It is one of the stages of play described by sociologist Mildred Parten.
  • Toddlers are not being antisocial; they are learning from each other.
  • It gradually leads to playing together.

What you can do

  • Offer enough similar toys to reduce conflict.
  • Let toddlers play near each other without pushing them to share.
  • Describe what each child is doing to spark interest in the other.

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