Setting limits means showing a child the boundaries of safe and acceptable behaviour in a calm, clear and consistent way. Limits help young children feel secure, and testing them is a normal part of development.
Key takeaways
- The American Academy of Pediatrics advises against spanking and harsh punishment.
- Short, positive instructions work better than long explanations.
- Accept the feeling while limiting the behaviour.
What you can do
- Keep a few clear rules and explain them simply.
- Say what to do, not only what not to do: "Walk inside."
- Respond the same way each time and follow through calmly.
